
Conflict. It’s a fact of life. Sometimes life is dry without it, and sometimes it’s just too much spice, too much sauce! We advocate adopting an ‘ALL-IN, ALL-ONE’ mindset to help our clients to better understand the circumstances and the motivations of all stakeholders and to better strategize and plan on how to best address a conflict. An ‘ALL-IN, ALL-ONE’ mindset:
- Reminds everyone that they are on the same team, so it benefits Everyone when any ONE person succeeds while helping Everyone to work on a common purpose;
- Provides us with energy and hope, so that we can be fully committed (ALL-IN) and fully trusting of the team (ALL-ONE);
- Connects everyone to a higher purpose, a higher goal than one he/she could do on their own;
- Helps align everyone on a common purpose, and a common plan on how to achieve that purpose;
- Encourages respect and acceptance of people who are not-like-you;
- Empowers everyone at all levels to express their motivations and interests so that it can be factored in with the strategy and execution;
- Invites respectful debate when appropriate with no room for dissension when a decision has been made;
- Increases the likelihood of receiving a more diverse range of effective options and opportunities;
- Helps any individual member (and the team) to understand when she/he is not a good fit for the team and make plans accordingly and
- Emboldens all of us to keep reaching for stars, in a way that’s All IN, All-ONE.
You don’t have to be ALL-IN for all things, but do adopt an ‘ALL-ONE’ mindset – choose kindness and compassion and curiosity, especially for those who are not like you.
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